9 Ways to Get Kinky Without Spending a Dime

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If you always use the same positions in the same bed around the same time, then you need to introduce something new into your routine. Kinkiness doesn’t have to involve draping yourself in leather, buying dangerous toys, and creating a safe word. You can get a little kinky by doing small things, and you don’t even have to drive to the store for supplies. You already have everything you need inside of your house.

1) Use Makeshift Handcuffs

As long as a cop’s not dragging you away after a drunken night of misdemeanors, handcuffs can be fun. Instead of heading to an adult store to buy some fuzzy pink ones, grab a tie from the closet and wrap it around your wrist and the headboard. As long as you trust your partner, there’s no reason to feel uncomfortable. You should be delighted that they’ll be doing all the work while you don’t have to move a muscle.

2) Punish by Spanking

As you age, spanking changes from a form of punishment to a form of pleasure. Communicate with your partner by telling them how hard you’re willing to be touched. If they surpass what you’re comfortable with, then give them a real punishment by withholding sex. But as long as they cooperate with you, the new sensation should be pleasurable. If you really enjoy it, you can always upgrade to being spanked with harder objects instead of soft hands.

3) Role Play

It’s time to prove that you’d make a better actress than that Kristen Stewart woman. Search through your closet for an old Halloween costume, or put together something new. If you have some cowboy boots and a plaid shirt, play the part of an innocent country bumpkin. If you have a buttoned up shirt and some glasses, pretend you’re a librarian. It’s your time to shine, so perform like an Oscar winner.

4) Place Mirrors on the Wall

Have you ever wondered how amazing you look while having sex? Well, you can see all the different angles of your body by putting some mirrors up around the room. Instead of looking over your partner’s shoulder at the TV, you can look over at your reflection. Or, if you’d rather watch it all back later, then break out the video camera and make an adult movie for your eyes only.

5) Watch Porn

If you don’t want to make your own porn, then watch some together. This works best if you’re not insecure about your body or your relationship. You don’t want to end up in tears when your mate gets excited by another couple. But if you’re secure in your skin, then watching porn can turn you both on, and give you some new ideas for foreplay.

6) Incorporate Food

It’s time to make your own personal sundae. Grab some whipped cream, spray it on each other’s bodies, and use your tongues to lick it off. You could do the same with chocolate sauce, or the topping of your choosing. Just make sure that you pick a location to get dirty that’s easy to get clean. You don’t want to spend more time mopping up your mess than creating it.

7) Create a Blindfold

Ties can be used as more than just handcuffs, and accessories for suits. They can be turned into blindfolds as well. As much as your partner loves admiring your beauty, it can be fun to keep them in the dark. When they can’t see you, they’ll have to rely on their other senses. They won’t know what you’re going to do next, so each touch will be a special surprise. Plus, they won’t be able to see your face if you end up doing something embarrassing.

8) Talk Dirty

Tell your partner how gorgeous they look or how delicious they taste. Tell them when their hands are doing something that you love or when you can’t take their teasing anymore. Remember that sex is about more than visual aspects. Make sure you incorporate your voice by moaning, teasing, and complimenting.

9) Try New Positions and Places

You don’t have to be an acrobat in order to try out something unique. Do a Google search for new positions or flip through the Kama Sutra. You should be able to find plenty of different ways to bend your body. If you want to stick to missionary, then at least head to a new room of the house or even the backyard so that the experience feels fresh.

Holly Riordan | News Cult

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